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Friday, December 1, 2017

Adored-365 Devotions for Young Women {A FlyBy Review}

I have two girls, and as the days march by into years, I'm aware that my all-day-every-day time with them is precious and short.  And I'm always looking for ways to pour more of God's truth into them before they "fly the coop" and are out on their own, so I was happy to have the chance to review Adored, a new devotional by Zondervan geared specifically for young women ages 13 and up.

Here's the official blurb:
Each day features an easy-to-read, relevant devotion paired with a scripture verse and journaling space to help readers reflect on the day’s message. The book tackles tough topics girls face, from bullying and social media to friendships and dating, all the while showing readers how infinitely precious they are in God’s sight.

OBM says:  
Not many devotionals discuss yoga pants, and if I'm honest, the intro to that particular devotion really was a turn-off to me...but I kept reading, and in the end, I loved the message it communicated about modesty.  My younger daughter (almost 13) really likes the way the book ties in popular culture and always turns things back to a Godly focus.  In fact, she asked if we had to send the book back after the review, (we get to keep it :) ), because she wants to keep reading it.  That's a ringing endorsement in this house.  The devotionals are pointed, not fluff, but brief enough that doing one daily is manageable.  They cover topics like God's promises, rejection by the world/being loved by God, enduring through painful times, and not letting the internet stir up contention.  I also like that this hardcover book is a smallish (maybe 5x7x1.5) size and a not overly "girlie" design, so it suits the target audience well

Adored retails for $14.99, and you can buy Adored from  You can also visit Zondervan's website to preview Adored and download a free week of devotionals.

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Saturday, October 21, 2017

My Poor, Sad, Neglected Blog-an Update

I don't mean to neglect my blog.  I used to love posting, and I miss writing, but life, it just gets SO busy, you know?

So right now, I'm sitting here taking a mental health break, and I figured I would do a quick post, if only for myself :).

We just got home from a weekend volleyball tournament out of town, and it marks the end of the season for our state-wide traveling homeschool league.  For the past two years, I've been the assistant coach for the Middle School and Varsity teams, as well as doing at least half of the admin work.  I have to much as I love the girls, I'm SO thankful when the season ends.

Here are pictures I took of our three teams:

Middle School


And Varsity

My oldest daughter is a senior this year, so this was her last year with varsity.  These girls are the BEST, and it was my honor to coach them at the tournament.  My youngest just started this year on the middle school team.  Like her sister, I'm not sure if she's in it for the sport or the friends, but she's enjoying it, and playing well, and that's all that matters :).

Mimi turned 18 the day before the tournament.  One of her teammates brought her a HUGE bag full of chocolate chip cookies and a hand made cookie-shaped card to our hotel room that night.  YUM!

And...Mimi has a boyfriend.  A serious one.  He's sweet, and they are smitten with each other.  He COMPLETELY surprised her by showing up at the tournament on Friday (my undying thanks to his mom for bringing him and spending some time watching Mimi as well).  THAT is a labor of love, let me tell you, because there are not words in the English language to describe the noise level of an indoor volleyball tournament, but sit next to someone blowing a whistle every ten seconds while watching a live sporting event with a CONTINUOUSLY cheering crowd, and you will begin to understand...then do that for hours and hours and hours.  And Mimi wasn't the only girl with a beau who did that!  Ky's young man, who is a former student of mine and a real sweetheart too, came with his family and spent the day just to support our girls, and her in particular :).

While we were at the tournament, one of the scorekeepers from the team we were competing against asked me if I was singing in the choir Wednesday night at the Pastor's conference at our church...she had been there and recognized me from that, lol.

The Pastor's conference was a three day event and draws people from all over the world.  Sadly, Monday and Tuesday we had volleyball (away games on Monday and practice on Tuesday at a different gym since the conference was in the church's gym-the gym doubles as the worship center), so I wasn't able to sing the first two days, but TJ worked tech all three days of the conference.  He normally does tech at church on Sunday mornings for the middle school service and has done it for our co-op for years, but this was his first time working a conference event. 

Speaking of TJ, he gets his braces off in December.  I just made the appointment for his last wire change, and the braces removal, and his retainer fitting.  Yay!  He also got a concussion two weeks ago from a header in a soccer game.  Boo! He got it on a Saturday, and then had the PSAT four days later.  Good times!  He's doing better, but still not back to playing soccer.

And just for fun...

Here's Sari before SuperCon.  She went as Chibi Moon, and Mimi hand painted and accented her jacket.

Here's Mimi's friend who made her cookies, Mimi (looking SO much like my mom in this picture it's not even funny) and Sari all cosplaying for SuperCon.

And Mimi's 18th's a new picture:

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Monday, June 19, 2017

Miacademy Review

For those of you who remember, quiet a while ago, I reviewed one of their other learning site-Always Icecream for girls and and have a lifetime membership to that and to Clever Dragons for boys because we enjoy their safe, moderated content so much.  Now, the same parent company has created another learning site where all kids can find a "safe, wholesome, and fun place to learn online".    That site is called Miacademy.

Beyond being open to both boys and girls, what makes Miacademy so very different from many other sites out there is the emphasis on meeting your child where they are at, meaning this site is great for "normal" kids, but also perfect for those that need a little extra help.  It begins when you first sign your kids up.

In this box above, parents configure learning levels and social features.  You can set difficulty generally, by only adjusting the top bar across any range you want-as wide or narrow as you wish.  Or, you can choose to go subject by subject...or a combination of both.  Here, I left most of it set to the upper range, but keyed in on the foreign language setting and made that one lower, knowing that my child's exposure to ASL was probably not going to help them much with French or Spanish games.  Socially, you can choose to have them be able to interact with others in the community or not, so they can just be there to learn, or they can take place in the group games.

Parents' accounts have two levels- free and premium.  With the free membership, you can assign your student(s)' s learning and social levels, choose whether learning and enrichment videos are accessible to them, receive weekly emails with your student(s)'s progress, and give them bonus site based currency for chores or schoolwork done at home.  Here is what you get for the premium membership:

Premium Parent Membership Benefits 
  • Assign practice from any learning area on Miacademy.

  • Preview and assign assessments. You'll receive statistics on your child's scores when your child completes the test.

  • See a detailed list of incorrect answers. (You can use this to help focus your teaching where it's most needed.)

  • Require an assignment to be completed before your child explores other site areas.

  • Receive detailed reports about your child's assessment progress as part of our weekly update.

  • Track study time and see how much time your children spend in each learning area.

  • Print customizable report cards for independent study portfolios or school.

  • One Premium Parent membership covers all paid child accounts.
The parent premium membership is $199 for a lifetime, or $99 for one year.

Here's a sample of the letter portion of the weekly email you receive letting you know what your student has been working on:

When your student first logs into the site, they create a "mini me".  that figure is initially customizable  in a somewhat limited fashion, but as they play more, they can design clothes of their own for their figure to wear.  Then, they can even sell the clothes (and other items) they design to others in the site, and the site tracks how well their item sells and shop does overall allowing them to learn about business as well.

The map helps them explore their world, and as you can guess, in the design studio is where they can do all their creating, whereas the shops for the items are on the right hand side.

I have to say, this creative area is one of my daughter's favorite parts of Miacademy.  She loves being able to design clothing and furniture items, or just works of art, and then offer them for sale to others.  And she loves seeing all the creative things others have designed!  That apple doesn't fall far from the tree though, because her sister typically has one of the top selling shops on Always Icecream, and I really credit that with planting the seed for her digital design aspirations.

The above circle explains the Miacademy model best, as it's not all designing clothing or fun and games, it's about smart learning.  Kids have the opportunity to learn across the curriculum through multi-level educational quizzes and videos.  There is lots of appreciation for accomplishment like achievement medals earned in game, praise and incentives awarded by parents, and peer support.  And then there is plenty of incentive with the earning of "in game" currency.  "Gold" earned from doing learning games or watching learning videos can be used to purchase decorations for your castle, expansions to your castle, pets, new clothes, play creative games, or, if you allow it, watch entertaining videos (which are still approved by the moderators).

 Here's an example of a science game.  During the initial assessment process, the games begin somewhat simple and allow students to skip 5 levels once they have shown some competency.  They can always go back a level as well.

 Here's an example of earning a medal in a a game.

This is the video screen.  The ones with coins on them will earn the students coins to watch them, and the ones without cost them coins to watch them.  Again, all videos have to be approved before they are allowed on the site, but you can also chose to not allow your child access to videos if you'd like.

OBM says:  I have 4 kids, but really only one that falls within this age range anymore.  I have to say though, that even though my 17 year old daughter has "aged out" of Always Icecream, she loves to go on there and create new things from time to time because she's artistic and with AI she found a community and an outlet for her artistry she really enjoyed.  She also learned SO much through the videos about geography and other subjects.  But every child is different, and for whatever reason, even thought she enjoys AI, my youngest child has LOVED Miacademy even more.  She is truly my Ferdinand...preferring to smell the flowers in the field over doing the schoolwork in front of her...but she will willingly do Miacademy all day long.  NOT that it is a replacement for a full day of school.  But it is a welcome change to fighting over everything, for sure.  I like it because it has solid educational material that she will watch and do without fighting with me about.  And I like it because, unlike YouTube and a lot of other video sources out there, once she's done watching one video, I don't have to worry about the content of the NEXT one that is going to pop up.  She likes it because she can work on her own.  I can use the parent's premium membership to assign her work if I want to, but so far I've just let her wander as the mood suits her and kept track of it with the weekly emails.  We'll see how that changes as time passes...I can tell you the parent company behind Miacademy is very responsive and really listens to any concerns you might have, which in my mind's eye is another huge plus in today's day and age.  The biggest "con" I would have is that the artificial intelligence voice that speaks through most of the games can be hard to understand sometimes for critical things like phonics games where you are trying to distinguish between very similar sounding words or phonemes, which sometimes results in erroneous "incorrect" answers.  But that doesn't happen too often, so it's something I can get past given the other positives.

To sign up for a free trial of Miacademy, just click the link.  Pricing is $9,95 a month ($4,95 for your first month), $89 a year, or $189 for a lifetime.  If you have multiple kids and many, many years ahead of you, then the family lifetime might be your best bet.  It's $389 for up to 4 children.  My friend Susan had multiple students using Miacademy, so you can see the benefits of that if you read her review here: Homeschooling Hearts and Minds.

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Wednesday, March 15, 2017

Open Hands-Laura Story's Newest CD {A Flyby Review}

When the "call" came out to review this new album by Laura Story, I was eager to say "yes"!  Her song Blessings was a real blessing to me, as I'm sure it was to so many people out there based on its popularity. For those of you not familiar with Laura, here's a bit of her bio:

GRAMMY® award winning artist, speaker, songwriter, author and worship leader Laura Story has a gift for penning songs that connect with people all around the world. Among her successes as a solo artist with her smash hits “Mighty to Save” and “Blessings,” Laura has also penned hit songs for other renowned artists including Chris Tomlin’s “Indescribable.” Her solo artist music debut in 2008 with Great God Who Saves led to four Dove nominations and the award for “Inspirational Album of the Year.”

I loved this backstory that we were given about the inspiration for this album:

Throughout the Bible, there are countless stories of ordinary people whole-heartedly attempting to live a life fully surrendered to God’s unique calling on their lives. More than once, God asks people of faith to relinquish control and simply trust Him. These days, singer/songwriter Laura Story is discovering the beauty found in letting go. It’s this posture of surrender that she’s striving for on her fifth studio album, Open Hands (Fair Trade Services).
“We have this picture all the way through the Scriptures of all these great leaders in this process of surrendering everything. What the Lord is asking them is not, ‘You need to hold on tighter. You need to manage this better.’ What the Lord asks us is to surrender,” she offers, “It’s about learning to live with open hands, learning to live life in this constant state of saying, ‘Lord, my life is Yours. My time is Yours. My resources are Yours. All of this is Yours. Do what You will.’”

I found this to be such a true sentiment.  Having just finished a study of Ezekiel, I was struck by all the odd (to the observer), difficult things God asked Ezekiel to do, and he lived a life fully surrendered.  Time and time again in the Bible, ordinary people do extraordinary things when they let go and let God.

And this quote was so insightful:

 “Worship at the very core of what it is is ‘worth-ship.’ It’s the easiest definition I’ve ever heard of worship. It’s giving God worth, and sometimes that means verbal adoration and praise. Sometimes that’s showing Him worth with our calendars and our checking accounts. No matter what it is, it always begins with open hands. It always begins with a willingness to say, ‘You are worth whatever cost you call me to give,’” she maintains. “Worship in its very core begins with surrender. That’s how we really show God that He’s worth it all.”

OBM says: Open Hands does a wonderful job of taking you to the throne of grace.   From the title song, which features guest vocals from Mac Powell of Third Day fame, to my personal favorite For the Love of My King- a beautiful updated version of My Jesus I Love Thee, each of these songs definitely speaks of God's worth-ship.  The last song, Grace Abounds, is simplistic, but lovely, and such a great reminder on days when everything seems to be going wrong.  Overall, Open Hands is truly a worshipful CD that would make a wonderful addition to any collection.

To purchase the album or any of the songs individually, you can go to iTunes.

To follow Laura Story and her music, you can use any of the links below:

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Tuesday, January 17, 2017

The Returning by Rachelle Dekker {A Tyndale Review}

***I want to start by saying I was meant to post this on the 17th for the book's launch, but my computer has been misbehaving terribly, and I have not been able to get it working, even with a “tech guy” for a husband.  I feel terrible, and I am ever so appreciative to Tyndale and Ms. Dekker for the opportunity to review this book.***

I was SO excited to be chosen to review this final book in Rachelle Dekker’s The Seer series.  I’ve had the chance to review each of the other books in the series and was very much looking forward to reading The Returning and seeing how the story concluded.  Before I get too much into my thoughts, here’s a little background on the book and the author.

 The oldest daughter of New York Times bestselling author Ted Dekker, Rachelle Dekker was inspired early on to discover truth through the avenue of storytelling. She graduated with a degree in communications and spent several years in marketing and corporate recruiting before making the transition to write full-time. She lives in Nashville with her husband, Daniel, and their diva cat, Blair.

Tyndale provided some Q&A about the book directly from the author, which is so insightful.

Set the scene for The Returning. What has happened since The Calling ended? Well, it’s been nearly 20 years, and the world has changed. I don’t want to give too much away for those who haven’t read the first two, so I’ll just say the world is very different and much more dangerous than it once was. But something is brewing under the surface. Change is coming, and people know it. 

What themes are explored in this book? Identity is something I am always exploring, so that’s no different in The Returning. But in this novel I took a really hard look at forgiveness and how that relates to our journey of discovering who we really are.

The theme of identity is explored in all three Seer books. How does forgiveness relate to identity? For me, forgiveness is more about the one who feels wronged than the one who committed the wrong. What if, for a moment, you believed that nothing could harm you? That you, as a believer, are seated at the Father’s table and standing with him? Can anything harm the Father? If you believe no, then can anything harm you—the true you, the true spirited self? So then, forgiveness becomes more about letting go of false belief and stepping into the true identity that the Father gave to you. I know it’s radical, but belief like that could change the world, don’t you think? 

How do you hope this book will resonate with your readers? I hope, as with both of the other books, that the reader sees themselves in the characters and that the story causes them to look inward. To ask hard questions like, Who am I? What am I capable of? Do I see myself the way the Father does? Can I? I hope it challenges their idea of identity and then gives them hope to see themselves and others more clearly. Because that’s how these stories have impacted me, and we are all really just the same. 

OBM says:  I read this book over the course of a day.  It sucked me in, the wanting to know the end of all the characters’ stories.  I personally enjoyed this book so much more than the second one and felt that it came back around to the original feel of the first book, The Choosing.  I love that there are discussion questions at the end, not because I am in a book club, or because I have anyone to discuss the book with, but because they make me think a bit more about the story.  It’s an odd genre- this post-apocalyptic/dystopian but decidedly Christian one-since that possibility doesn’t really line up with how I understand end-times to work, but it does give YA readers who enjoy the post-apocalyptic genre a faith filled series to enjoy.  And reading Ms. Dekker's Q&A made me look at the themes beyond the possibility of whether the scenario was plausible or not belief-wise in my mind's eye.  I did thoroughly enjoy the entire series-it's very readable, and definitely draws you into the story that she is telling.  The one character I struggled with a lot was Aaron, as I wasn't sure what he was exactly supposed to represent, and so I'll share Ms. Dekker's words on him from her Q&A:  What is he supposed to represent and what kind of spiritual leader is he? I like to leave this one open, which I know isn’t really the answer you want. I want the reader to decide who he is to them. For me he’s a guiding light, an angel maybe, a representation of the spirit who communicates with us and leads us. He can be many things—mostly, though, he’s a great way to hear truth.  I'd wholeheartedly agree that he was the character through which the greatest amount of Biblical truth was spoken.

The Seer series in general, and The Returning specifically, is available on and in bookstores everywhere.
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Monday, December 19, 2016

When Jesus Was a Green-Eyed Brunette by Max Davis {A Review and Giveaway}

It seems like it's been forever, but this Blessed Mamma has been plugging away at the Mamma part of her job a LOT lately.  Life is settling in a bit and I was really ready for this opportunity to fill my spiritual cup when the opportunity came to review When Jesus Was a Green-Eyed Brunette.  That title catches your attention, doesn't it?  Here's the official blurb:

When Jesus Was a Green-Eyed Brunette weaves heartwarming and miraculous stories of Jesus showing up in ordinary people, revealing that He knows us and is fully present in our everyday circumstances, especially in our difficulties. Those hurting and weary from worn-out religion are longing for a fresh touch from the living Jesus. Best-selling author Max Davis challenges us to do more than simply receive God’s grace—we need to allow grace to soften, change, and shape us. As you read this book you will laugh, cry, and come face-to-face with the living Jesus, much like Davis did, when he found Him living in a green-eyed brunette. As Davis puts it, “Jesus is very much alive today and still does incredible things—sometimes supernatural things—through us!”
I wasn't familiar with the author, Max Davis, and in case you aren't either, here's his bio:
 Max Davis is the author of over 20 published books and has been featured in USA Today and Publishers Weekly and has appeared on The Today Show and The 700 Club. He holds degrees in Journalism and Biblical Studies and is a much sought-after speaker for churches and organizations worldwide. He and his wife, Alanna, live on 50 beautiful acres in Greenwell Springs, Louisiana.
His wife Alanna, by the way, is the green-eyed brunette in question, but you'll have to read the book to get more of that story.  In fact, the book is full of stories of people "Loving People Like God Does" as the subtitle suggests.   I think this quote sums up best the purpose of the book and the stories shared in it, "It's about allowing the Jesus inside us to transform us and then use us to touch the people who come into our lives..."  Mr. Davis further says our calling, with Jesus living inside us, is to "step where He steps, stop where He stops, and go where He goes."

OBM says: I took this book with me to read during "downtime" as I ran my brood from place to place, and frequently found myself moved to tears and having to discreetly wipe my eyes :).  More than that, I found myself challenged by some of the stories.  I try to touch the lives of people who come into my life for the better, but I'm no Corrie ten Boom.  And yet I'm reminded that I just need to honor and obey God in all my circumstances.  Go when He says go, stay when He says stay, and always strive to keep my relationship right with Jesus first and foremost.  I'd recommend this book for anyone who needs to be reminded of Jesus's presence in their life or of how He can work through them in the lives of others.

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Tuesday, April 12, 2016

Loved+Blessed Box Review

It's so nice when encouragement arrives on your doorstep.  Especially when all you've been dealing with for weeks is brown moving boxes and this one is a petite pink box with the words "loved + blessed" on the outside.  Even the mailing label says, "Encouragement Delivered."  And that's exactly what the Loved+Blessed Box is-encouragement delivered to your home.

Last month's theme was "Speak Life."  The box contained a mini poster reminding recipients not to believe everything they think, and then providing positive encouragement (you are loved, you are blessed...), a removable, repositionable sticker, two scripture cards (one was a bonus), a theme card, which is mounted inside the box to explain this month's theme, and a journal for recording encouraging scripture, quotes, or positive thoughts.  Here's what it all looked like:
Loved + Blessed Boxes can be bought in month to month, and 3, 6, or 12 month pre-paid subscription plans.  They are $10 each month to month, and less for the pre-paid.  You can also purchase them as a gift for someone else at the same price.  Previous boxes are available for purchase as well.  The price is slightly higher ($12), but you know what you are getting, so that's helpful if one box looks particularly appealing or encouraging for someone you know.

OBM says:  The idea of these little monthly subscription boxes is so popular right now.  And I love that this one is Christian and positive and NOT full of a ton of junk that I just feel guilty about throwing away because I paid for it.  They'd also make great, inexpensive, "I was thinking of you" gifts to send.  As to the box I specifically received, I wish the mini poster had stuck exclusively to affirmations that were Biblical and then put the citation beneath the saying, i.e. "you are wonderfully made...Psalm 139:14" and skipped the "you are smart" type things because I'm not sure that's among God's promises for each of us :).  Other than that, I loved the box, and I think it came at a perfect time for me.  Ephesians 4:29, the verse on the scripture card, is one of my favorites to be reminded of, especially in the stress of moving!  I am truly loved and blessed-it's a good reminder.

For you Facebookers out there, Loved+Blessed has a FB page where they post encouraging things on a regular basis.

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